Teen coaching
Helping teens take ownership before the world decides for them.
For teenagers wrestling with confidence, focus, responsibility, or a sense of direction.
Coaching with Eli Zians is not licensed mental health counseling, psychotherapy, clinical psychology, or social work. Coaching is not a substitute for licensed mental health care.
- Since 2015Coaching clients
- 50 minA typical session
- Free30-minute intro call
- Weeklyto bi-weekly cadence
- Onlineplus in-person by request
About teen coaching
Who is teen coaching for?
It's for teenagers struggling with confidence, focus, responsibility, or a sense of direction.
What happens in a session?
Teens get a space that isn't school and isn't home — where they can be honest without judgment. Sessions are direct, practical, and built around what they're actually facing.
What we tend to work on
- Building self-awareness and steadier self-management
- Responsibility and follow-through in daily life
- Social confidence and communication skills
- Identifying strengths and areas for growth
- Academic mindset and goal-setting
The aim of the work: teens who show up differently — at home, at school, and in themselves.
Do you work with teens directly, or through parents?
Both. I work directly with teens one-on-one, and I also work with parents to help them understand and better communicate with their child. Many families benefit from a combination of both approaches.
What stays private between a teen and their coach?
A teen's coaching sessions are private, so they can speak openly — but that privacy is not absolute. Eli is clear up front, with both the teen and the parent, about the named limits: if a teen is at risk of harming themselves or someone else, if a teen discloses abuse, or if there is a severe safety concern.
When one of those limits is reached, Eli involves a parent or guardian and, where needed, the appropriate professionals. Because Eli lives and works in Boca Raton, Florida, he is also required by Florida law (FL Stat §39.201) to report any suspected child abuse, neglect, or abandonment — a duty that applies to every person in Florida, and one of the clear limits on confidentiality.
The exact wording of the teen confidentiality and parental-involvement policy must be confirmed against how Eli actually works, with legal review (coach-08). The named exceptions above are legal duties that apply regardless; the everyday details — what a parent is told, and when — are Eli's to set with counsel.
Where Eli works
Sessions are conducted online via video call, so your teen can join from anywhere in the country. For local families in the Boca Raton area, in-person sessions can be arranged on request.
Related reading: talking to your teen without a fight · what your teen is really asking for · coaching vs therapy.
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Book a free intro call for your teen
A parent or guardian starts the conversation. The first call is free, and Eli will be honest about whether coaching is the right fit for your teen.